The Blue Lagoon was out in 1980. Lets look at movies from the 1970s. Yes, the 70s were the years of sex and drugs but not in movie world. Some directors did dare the world with scenes of nude women, boobs, .. but was there ever a scene of a couple making love? I really dont think … Till the Blue Lagoon came out. At the time it was revolutionary … it wasnt till 1986 that something followed … it was Nine and a Half Weeks, and a year later, Fatal attraction in 1987.

Now back to What Rema was saying. Yes, imagine .. man and woman … no society, no rules … and no religion …

JUST PURE HUMAN BEINGS

They were both innocent, and they grew innocent and so did their love. They completed and complimented one another but .. as humans, something grew inside them .. something they did not prepare for, they did not plan and did not even understand. It started with a touch and a response to that touch but when the time came they were both ready and both ready to enjoy it.

So the question I ask here, did society, religion, and our busy life kill our ability to love? and to enjoy good love making?

MY OPINION IS BEING PROJECTED TO A RELATION WHICH IS UNDER THE MARRIAGE UMBRELLA ‘ THE ONE AND THE ONLY LEGAL RELATION ‘

THANKING YOU

WE REMAIN

There is this fact that men are selfish when it comes to sex .. sad but true .. most men are very interested in their own pleasue, forgeting that sex is an equal pleasure if not even more pleasurable for the woman. So, for a man to please a woman, be it while licking her pussy or even going all the way, he first has to consider the fact that she has to enjoy it too.

I have learned, and trust me I have learned a lot, that when I work on pleasing my woman, she will naturally work on pleasing me further. I have come to that point where I cant be pleased unless my woman has her full pleasure.

So ladies … give your guy the chance to please you more. Tell him what you like, what you enjoy .. dont be shy about wanting to enjoy yourself …

No two women enjoy sex the same way, and no man knows what ALL women want .. not even me

Guys … dont be selfish .. think about your woman .. think of how she likes it .. where she likes it .. and (drop me a line to tell you a couple of secrets .. LOL)

All men enjoy watching a woman being eaten by another woman .. but what is the point if we cant join in?

I have no clue why I ended up on ur website and reading your articles, but I’m happy I did. It’s good tto see ppl talking about some subjects that were always and still are considered as taboos in our community.

Keep it on dear )

MA

Many women I knew used to say that they know how to enjoy sex, and even how to please a man, even when they havnt tried being with a man before … so if I know that woman masturbates, then I would agree, but I would not think that a woman can learn about her pleasures by readinga a artickle in Cosmopolitan.

And what about porn? I donno .. there were times when I learned something from watching porn, but isnt the main part of enjoying your partner is in the process? the words, the first touch (specially that innocent accedental touch ) .. and what that could lead to .. the more I watched porn the more I missed that part of the action .. I dont get turned on watching a black dick sliding into a wet pussy as much as I would enjoy watching the horny girl touching her own pussy … which prings us back to masturbation.

From a man’s point of view, porn can get boring, although sometimes you need to watch in order to expand your imagination to further areas … cause if you don’t even the best sexual relation dies

Interesting article you have here, I would like to comment on it from my point of view.

You don’t have to withdraw what you said about falling in love; it’s true, it’s there; however on a variable scale from a person to the other.

I don’t believe that love is a choice; you will meet someone one day and you will say “that’s him” then you will know how does it feel to love someone, and there is a difference between appealing and loving her. If she appeals to me its because she is intelligent, funny, close to my mind, but if I felt love with her its because she is intelligent, funny, close to my mind and HEART.

What I wish to have in the woman I love is to be beautiful (I would agree with V on this one) however this also a big variable on the scale from a person to the other, intelligent (that might be a bit hard with beauty no offense) funny, has the ability to sacrifice herself for me as I know I would for her, love me like I love her, romantic (although I know I am not), able to share her thoughts and most importantly content of what she has.

I think women have very close requirements as men in a way or the other, I think you would agree (as its clear in your article) that both look for handsomeness (you are not looking for an ugly man?), intelligence (you are not looking for a dumb ass), funny and a few more.

Children; this is a relative matter, but in general most people want children and I know of a few that don’t. From my experience the look on my fathers face when I told him my wife had a baby boy and I named him after him is priceless and he almost got tears in his eyes; to me my parents are very very important to me especially now when my kids grew up and I knew what they had to take when I was there age. So its not just continuing the blood.

I have been in a love affair before and I difenitely will not again.

Hope this is another experience for you to contemplate.

FZ

great topic to talk about rema
ok I decide to share my experience and my opinion here to be as a start.
And since I’m not logging in my real name I can talk about it very honestly truly and objectively.
There is no way you can know or predict what the other side want or feel even if he/she your soul mate
Even men don’t know other men how they think and same for the women. So I will talk about “what I know” that men want in genral then I will talk about what I want.

Every one knows that men like animals they search for sex any where, but its the same for women also they search for sex it’s the nature of human being but we decide how to control it. as for women god made them shy mostly they don’t make the first move, woman think for sex as its way to express love beside the pleasure that comes with it but for most men its all about pleasure and little bit about love (outwardly) but they have feelings that most of time don’t show even to there own wife because we want to show infront of the world as tough as we can (I don’t know why all that pride).
But what I notice in me that I sometimes keep my feelings inside me but that’s only because I’m shy person.

What man seeks in woman?
I think the first thing the attract man to women is the first look (her body), yes there is mysterious way that makes us look to every detail of woman body to see all the harmony in every part, but that’s our nature for the first look it’s in our blood … LOL but after we know the woman and her personality, spirit..Etc we stop looking at the physical parts of the woman (will not at all)

As for me what makes me fall in love again, I will start in the spiritual qualities, I would like my woman to be pure, ready to dedicate her self only to her man, delicate … very delicate, have a good since of humor, easy to talk to and good listener, independence woman, of course can cook a delicious food and finally she Must be ROMANTIC WOMAN.
Now about the physical parts, I’m not picky about it i like her at first to be satisfied with her own body, mmm , from what I notice in me the very thing that attract me in the girl her eyes ( more than once when girl pass by and my friends they say to me did u checked out her breasts and her ass and my answer is no I was looking in her eyes and her hair)
yes the most thing I like is the eyes ooohh god that is the magnetic part in my woman.

hope i answer some of your answers

you friend
V

Actually, I have this wisdom statement engraved on my office wall