When we are very little we learn how to feel about ourselves and life by reaction of the adults around us… it’s the way what to think about ourselves and about our world… if you lived with people who were unhappy, frightened, guilty, angry then you learned a lot of negative things about yourself and about your world.
…So when we grow up we have tendency to recreate the emotional environment of our early home life … this is not got bad, right or wrong… it’s just what we know inside of as “ Home” …We also tend to recreate our personal relationships the relationship we had with our mothers or with our fathers or what they had between them.
Think how often you have had a lover or a boss who was just like your mother or father… what you did!!!!!!
We also treat ourselves and our kids the way our parents treated us…why !!!!!
What do we have to is to take five or ten minutes of our day to go ‘time travelling’ in our imagination and give your ‘little you’ the love and support that you need.
Have sweet dreams
Tho, I never read a blog before in my whole life. Yet, I feel that you’re parts of all what you have seen. You lived alot and seen alot, te mosaic of your character is amazing and ur writings reflect that diversity in you soul. God bless You….
Sam
Sam,
Thanks for your comments .. am happy that you had the chance to read my blog .. it means a lot to me .. Have a lovely day
Rema, This is just amazing words from the heart. I believe you had changed alot since the last time we met.
I wish you all the best with your new life..
Looking forward to read more … it is interesting..
Dina
beautifully written ..